I'll miss you Harry
Edward K. Eckert
I had not expected to write another musing for a couple of
months, but the news of Harry Monaco’s death shook me to my roots. Truly, the
good die young. But why Harry? He only wanted to do good for so many people and he
wanted to find a meaningful life for him to live. I know he found it, but I
wish he stayed with us longer so that we could learn from him.
Every so often a student touched me deeply. Harry Monaco
was one of those students. Harry had taken my classes while he was a history
major at Bona’s in the early 1980s. He was a good student, far above average,
but was never the brilliant student-scholar or, thankfully, a history nerd.
What Harry was was a caring individual. He was a man with deep interests who
pursued them to the fullest. I remember when he and his best friend Chris
stopped after class to chat with me. They were not looking for extra points;
they were discussing far more important issues. They both were seeking meaning
in the future lives they would lead. Both men wanted to be more than
materially successful. They wanted to be men of character, honesty, and concern. They
were men who would contribute more to society than they would receive.